Embracing Your Unique Voice: Finding Inspiration in Everyday Life

Most of my best poetry ideas don’t arrive when I’m sitting at my desk with a pink, fruity-smelling candle lit and a quirky, character-shaped pen at the ready. No, they show up when I’m standing in line at Coffee Connection, silently debating whether I need yet another iced latte with caramel swirl (spoiler: I do). Inspiration loves to sneak into those ordinary, half-boring moments, like overhearing a stranger’s discussion about oat vs. almond milk, or catching how the light makes the cafe’s windows look like stained glass.

That’s why I keep a Notes app file that is let’s just say, a chaotic masterpiece. Half-poem lines, half grocery lists, and the occasional reminder to call my Aunt Nancy. But buried in there? Sparks of something beautiful that might become a poem later. My mastery comes around midnight, half asleep, musings on ideas for the next great American novel. Although once I’m awake in the morning, the notes mostly read like gibberish. Even among all of the rubble, you can find something truly amazing. That’s why I say to always write it all down, even the weird stuff. Especially the weird stuff.


Creating a Productive Writing Routine: Tips for Balancing Academics and Creativity

Balancing homework, deadlines, and poetry can feel like juggling on bowling balls with just your pinky fingers. A trick I’ve been working on lately is that I actually schedule “poetry hours” on my calendar, and I treat them like class time. If someone asks to hang out between 7 pm and 9:30 pm, I’m sorry, I have an appointment with my electric blanket and a bag of Cheez-Its Grooves.

For focus, my husband introduced me to the Pomodoro method: 25 minutes of intense writing followed by a 5-minute break. In theory, that break is for stretching. In practice? Sometimes I scroll through Instagram, but other times I just stare at the fridge, as if it holds all the answers. Mostly, however, it just holds my next snack, which arguably is the answer to my hunger.


Building a Supportive Community: Networking with Fellow Poets and Writers

Writing is technically a solo sport, like societies obsession with pickle ball, but, like having a good competitor, community makes it way less lonely. I’ve met some of my favorite people at open mics and workshops, though, yes, reading your poem out loud for the first time feels like handing your diary to a stranger. Worth it, though.

Before COVID-19, when I was in undergrad in the Northern Virginia, Washington, D.C. area, I would frequently visit one of the Busy Boys & Poets locations. On select nights throughout the week, the restaurant hosts an open-mic night. It was at one of these nights that I first read my poetry out loud to an audience that wasn’t my creative writing class. It was nerve-wracking and my body physically shook the entire time, but I stood onstage under the spotlight and read my work. Looking back and remembering all the faces that cheered for me when I finished my poem, I knew then and still know now that I’m never alone in my writer’s journey.

Even online, there are incredible poetry spaces. Think of them as group chats where people actually want to hear about your metaphors. In Providence, RI there’s LitArts RI, a community centered organization that hosts writers’ groups, writing events, and posts helpful content on their website. In Boston, MA there’s the organization Grub Street. They host classes all year long, in person and online, that cover a wide array of different topics. I’ve been taking creative writing classes through Grub Street since high school, and I’ll always be a huge supporter.

Fostering a community is so integral to who we are as humans, but especially as creatives. We deserve to have people in our lives who encourage us to be our best selves and create our best art. Finding your place in life is never easy and can sometimes be discouraging. I’ve been working my whole life to find where I belong, and I’m still working on it. But the thought of finding my place among like-minded creatives makes me happy to keep working in order to find that group.


Exploring Different Forms of Poetry: Expanding Your Creative Horizons

Here’s my confession: I used to roll my eyes at certain forms. Sonnets? Too math-y. Haikus? Too short. Spoken word? Scary. But trying them anyway stretched me in the best ways. Each style forces you to write differently, and sometimes that’s where the magic happens.

Plus, reading other poets is like a free masterclass. Some voices will inspire you, others will make you mutter, “Ugh, why didn’t I write that?” Both reactions are equally motivating.

For years, I’ve experimented with the Villanelle structure. I feel as if the rhyming and repetitive sentences can help the writer add depth to the poem. I have this vision of writing a Villanelle whose structure will be part of the story, a double meaning if you will. Most of the time, my Villanelle poems are bogged down by making sure they rhyme perfectly, but when I’m able to let go and write honestly, sometimes I can create real magic.

Plus, reading other poets is like a free Masterclass. Some voices will inspire you, others will make you mutter, “Ugh, why didn’t I write that?” Both reactions are equally motivating.

I have recently drawn great inspiration from the author and Nobel Prize winner, Edith Wharton. Yes, her writing is exquisite, but I also draw motivation from what she accomplished outside of writing. I figure that if Wharton can write a Nobel Prize-winning novel, help war refugees, and create work for the homeless, then why can’t I also fulfill my dreams?

Now the trick is to work as tirelessly as one of the most successful female authors in history. But of course, no pressure.


Self-Care for Poets: Managing Stress and Nurturing Your Mental Well-Being

Creative burnout is a real phenomenon, and so is student burnout. The trick is remembering you’re a human first, poet second. That means rest is part of the process. Go for a walk, watch a wacky cartoon sitcom (cough, cough, Tuca and Bertie, cough, cough) guilt-free, and eat something sweet from your stash in the back of the pantry.

Personally, I reset by wandering through Providence with headphones on, convincing myself I’m the main character. And honestly? Those little acts of self-care often sneak back into the poems. Because a healthy poet writes better poems than an exhausted one, always.

Infographic titled 'How to Embrace Your Voice as a Poet' providing tips on finding inspiration, establishing writing routines, connecting with fellow writers, experimenting with different poetry forms, and practicing self-care to foster creativity.


Discover more from Sarah Sylvan

Subscribe to get the latest posts sent to your email.

One response to “Embracing Your Unique Voice: Finding Inspiration in Everyday Life”

  1. What a killer first sentence! And I love the way your writing about inspiration is itself so inspiring. And the inspiration isn’t limited to literature, either — you call attention not just to what Edith Wharton wrote but also to what she did. I also love the image of the fridge — your description reminded me of when I used to sit at the breakfast room table doing my homework, and my gaze would slide over to the fridge every 5 minutes or so. Listen , whenever you are in doubt, YES it’s time to give Aunt Nancy a call.

Leave a Reply

Discover more from Sarah Sylvan

Subscribe now to keep reading and get access to the full archive.

Continue reading